Monday, December 30, 2013

Further Unsatisfactory Interactions

So, that guy who was friends with my friend but failed at boundaries? Yeah... no. He has lost all of my sympathy.
After the text messages, well before, but re-enforced thereafter, my friend:
And a swear-y, alliterated version of "Go away forever."

She got sick and had to go to hospital. She was granted night-leave over which I was her "guardian" orwhathaveyou and, just before she was due to go back to hospital, that guy rocked up.

She's all


And apparently, his reaction of the swear-y, alliterated version of "Go away forever," was




Anyway, so he knocks on the door while she, her next of kin (henceforth nok) and I were there and I, being closest to the door, go to answer it and I'm like

and get up, drag him away from the front door (with little effort: he's pretty willing to come with me at this point) and the yell out to my friend and her nok who it is. They call the cops.





Now, this guy, he's kinda like:
and

So
And he's all
and says he'll just leave, then. To which I'm like


and take his keys off him because he's in no fit state to drive.

Nekminit, he's all:
But the sparkle in his eye isn't the Light Side of the Force
So I'm like

and hand the keys off to the nok

Anyway, some vague attempts to get back to the guys car are made on his part. I eventually leave the nok to block the guy's path and I go and check on how my friend is.
I come back outside and it looks like the nok and that guy had a confrontation a'la LotR and the nok's just been like
 


'cause the nok's shirt's all ripped and stuff
So I pull the guy the nok and for a bit it's like this

then he's all

My reaction to which, had I not been holding his hair, waiting for him to calm down, would have been


Anyway, so I came away with a bruised arm and some muscle damage, the nok came away with a torn shirt and some bruises, we got my friend to hospital and then discharged, and that guy had a series of reactions which I'll detail later.
I took my friend to the hospital in her car and, after the cops arrived, the nok met us there.

My thoughts on future interactions with that guy?



Tuesday, December 3, 2013

One Year On

Sending, with love to you all, this video from my YouTube channel.

http://youtu.be/e17wzcWGLbw

Please pray for the repose of my dad's soul & have a Mass offered for him if you can.
 Please also pray for my family, especially my little brother.

Please consider contributing to
An eBook for Geoff
details are in the doobity-doo below the video on YouTube.

Submissions can be emailed to eBookforGeoff@gmail.com
Please forward this to all of Dad's family and friends.

Thank you, again, for your love and support.

I remain,  
Servus per Mariae, 
 - Kelly

Monday, December 2, 2013

Unsatisfactory Interactions

My friend has recently had some unsatisfactory interactions with someone she considered a friend but who refused to accept the boundaries she put in place.

So she was like



 then he was like

and then

then, when she didn't respond, he was all

with a little bit of

and, finally, summed up with

My reaction?
This

Followed by these in quick succession of one another





They're both unwell but also both intelligent and high functioning: he knows what words and phrases trigger which responses and he chose to use demeaning language toward her.
I love them both, but nothing she could do was worth his reaction.